The years before puberty are a good time start talking about the changes your child will go through. Your child may ask questions like, ?When will I get to shave??, ?What is a period?? or ?How are babies made??. Here are some tips for discussing puberty and sexual development with your child.
The years before puberty are a good time start talking about the changes
your child will go through. Usually this is around ages 8 to 10 years. Your child
may ask questions like, "When will I get to shave?", "What is a period?" or "How are
babies made?". Here are some tips for discussing puberty with your child.
Don't make fun of questions your child may ask.
You don't have to have one 'big' discussion about puberty. Take questions
as they come. Also take any openings for a discussion if they come up. For example, something
you see on TV together or read in a book may bring up a chance to talk.
Tell them puberty and the changes to their body are normal. Remind them everyone goes through it!
Your library may have books that explain puberty for your child in an age appropriate way.
Be straightforward and honest. Use proper names for body parts.
Explain that during puberty their body will change. Tell them these changes are all normal.
For girls, explain that body fat will increase and that it is normal and healthy.
For boys, try to alleviate fears about their growth relative to peers.
Tell your child to delay sexual intercourse as long as possible.
Tell them the risks of sexually transmitted diseases.
Be open to questions. Try not to judge.
Resource for parents:
American Academy of Pediatrics. Accessed February 14, 2005 at http://www.aap.org/healthtopics/sexuality.cfm.
