You said that your child sometimes poops in his/her clothes or bed. Your child may have
a hard time pooping. This can cause staining which often upsets the child, parents, and/or teachers.
Your child may be getting teased by other children about this. Some people may avoid your child
because of this. Your child may feel badly about him/herself. Children with worse soiling problems
than your child have a soiling disorder.
You may notice that your child one or more of the following problems:
Often has a hard time pooping (Constipation), with or without soiling
Your child goes days without pooping
S/he is afraid of using the toilet
Talks or thinks too much about using the toilet
Most children are toilet trained by the time they are 4 years old.
Some reasons for occasional soiling after age 4 are:
Problems with toilet training
Physical disabilities, which make it hard for the child to clean him/herself
Medical problems
Warning signs that things are getting worse:
Your child poops in places other than the toilet a lot (at least once a
month for three months in a row).
Your child feels more and more upset about this.
Your child is teased by other children about this and has few friends.
You or your child's teachers become more concerned about this.
If you think things are getting worse talk to your child's doctor, even if you have
discussed these things before.
Adapted in part from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP) Facts for Families series (1997)
and the American Psychiatric Association Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM-IV) (1994) .
