Your child's doctor wants you to be sure you know where you can get help for partner difficulties when you feel it is enough of a problem for you.
The challenge for you is to decide how long you are willing to feel bad until trying to get some help. Get confidential and free help at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Also, check the other resources from the doctor to see if your doctor has recommended local professionals or programs that should be helpful: If not, call the office.