You reported you have not gotten help with partner issues because you do not have the energy. Not having the energy can come from being too stressed or even depressed. Often being in conflict at home drains your energy. Your well-being should certainly be a priority as it is hard to be a good parent if you are out of energy or depressed.
Consider getting confidential and free help at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Also, check the other resources from the doctor to see if your doctor has recommended local professionals or programs that should be helpful: If not, call the office.