Your child's doctor wants you to be sure you know where you can get help for partner difficulties when you feel it can be helpful to your relationship. Getting help as a couple shows how much you love each other, even if it is scary to talk about these things. The challenge for you is to take that first step to have a safe relationship as well as a loving one. You can get confidential and free help at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Also, check the other resources from the doctor to see if your doctor has recommended local professionals or programs that should be helpful: If not, call the office.