Your child's doctor wants you to be sure you get help for the partner difficulties you have been having. Although you may have tried to get help before that did not work, trying again is very important to be sure you and your children are not in danger.
Get confidential and free help at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Also, check the other resources from the doctor to see if your doctor has recommended local professionals or programs that should be helpful: If not, call the office.