Even though you said your family didn’t have this tradition, picking a special person, like an "auntie" or "uncle" outside the family for your child can be a great support for the child and for you. Having such an extra adult helps make a child feel safe and special! Think about ways you can be sure that there are other people your child trusts and loves growing up. Choosing such a special person when your child is just a baby helps bond them to your child and creates another friendly face and a good insurance policy. Check out some ideas in this resource: http://resources.childhealthcare.org/details.do?id=23165