You reported you have not gotten help with using alcohol or drugs because you do not have transportation. Not having a reliable way to get around makes it very hard to get help. Some places that provide help to people with substance use problems are sensitive to this challenge and provide ways to assist with transportation. Contacting different places and seeing if they can provide you with assistance with transportation could allow you to get the help you want. Your doctor or your child's doctor may have information about which places you should contact. Also check out http://www.samhsa.gov/treatment/ to begin finding help in your community.