Is my child ready?

Four things define your child's readiness for toilet training.

• Motivation. You will know your child is ready to toilet train when they show an interest in the potty. At home your child might prefer to wear only underwear or be naked. This helps them recognize physical cues that they need to go to the bathroom.
• Ability to follow directions. They will be able to follow simple commands such as "Sit in the chair" or "Give me the book". Also they will understand words related to toilet training such as "wet", "dry", and "toilet".
• Physical capacity. Your child's bowel movements will be soft and regular. He or she might keep a dry diaper for 2 or more hours during the day or during their nap. They will be able to walk and sit, as well want to dress and undress themselves without help.
• Desire to Please. Your child needs to be in a stage when he or she wants to please you. Some points during the third year include a tendency to say "no" to everything. It is better to avoid these times. Also avoid training during periods of major change, such as the birth of a sibling.