Helping Your Child Understand Anxiety
- Your child needs to learn how to handle anxiety when you are not around. You can start
this by practicing it at home.
- Talk to your child about anxiety and worry when he/she is calm, but be careful not to lecture
- Tell your child that you are going to help him/her learn to realize when he/she is anxious
- When you notice that your child is anxious at home:
- Have your young child draw pictures of different emotions, including fear
- For older children who worry, help them talk their way through the worry
- Read books with your children about characters who are worried about things
- Discuss the following questions with your child until he can do this on his own.
- What am I worried about?
- What is the worst that can happen? What is the best that can happen?
- How likely is the worst to happen? What is most likely to happen?
- What can I do if the worst happens?
- Will worrying prevent the worst from happening?